Today, me and the girlfriend went for a nice bike ride to take
advantage of the gradually improving weather and get some exercise! Ok,
I’ll admit that the weather actually wasn’t that great; it was a little
chilly, but it still felt good to get out there and move about.
Some of my recent posts have been about learning how to build savings
and habits to build that will help you get started. As we were on our
bike ride, I was thinking that financial capital isn’t the only capital
that we work with and build through our lives. There are other kinds of
capital as well, like our relationships and our physical health.
Our network of friends, the relationships that we have… this is our
social capital. There is the physical shape we are in and the mental
sharpness of our minds which represents our health capital.
The same concepts and ideas that help us grow our financial capital
can also help to grow our social and physical capital. The ideas of
savings and debt… that we can spend a dollar today, or put it away to
create more dollars tomorrow, apply as well. Want to see how? Well let’s
take a look:
When it comes to social capital and friendships, you have to invest
your time wisely in choosing the right people to hang out with; people
that can broaden your life. However, you also have to give something
back to the people in your relationships, in order for the relationship
to be mutually beneficial and not parasitical. If you just take and
take… i.e. just spend what your friends are offering you without
investing something in return, then the relationship will not work out.
Wealth Pilgrim has an interesting post on how learning to network with people
can help you achieve success in business, and in life. You never know
when the right connection can help you find that job when you are down
on your luck!
Physical capital works the same way. People who love to sit on the
couch and eat tons of junk are not only mortgaging their future health
and quality of life, but they will also end up costing society in terms
of increased healthcare costs, lower productivity, and arguably less
valuable contributions to society.
When people take the road to wealth,
not only in terms of money but also in terms of social and physical
capital, they will enrich more than just their own lives; they will also
naturally enrich the lives of those around them. A rich man or woman
can start a company, employ people, donate to charity, support his/her
family, and add value to the world through his/her dollars. An active
and mentally healthy person will be able to contribute a lot more than a
couch potato, through the power of his mind and muscles.
Having money, good health, and good relationships is like having a
positive aura around you; this aura touches everything that you touch.
Conversely, being in debt, owing people money, having poor health and
poor relationships not only impoverishes your own life, but depresses
the people around you; it is a draining force on the world.
Therefore, one should not be jealous when someone has worked hard to
achieve their goals and has the results to show for it; although their
success undoubtedly benefits them the most, it also benefits the people
around them and the world at large. If jealously and envy
do tempt your mind, then instead of mentally bringing that person down,
try to do your best to raise yourself instead so you can match or
surpass that other person.
Well, that’s enough philosophizing for one night. I am hoping that
the weather improves so I can take more bike rides… and spend more time
philosophizing!
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